Let’s go through one of the many messages that are sent to me as I am being labeled as a hater and a transphobe. For each person that sends me a message like this, I apologize for any pain or offense that I have caused the listener, and I invite them to an open discussion. To date, not a single one of them has taken me up on that offer. They don’t want to discuss issues. Instead, they want to agenda dump. There is a difference between hating and speaking truth. Let’s talk about this shit.