Men, stop lying. She is not “just a friend.” Do you know how I know? Men don’t have ugly friends. They have ugly acquaintances. Men will call women that they are attracted to who work with them, are in their communities, at church, and in extended social spaces “friends.” Why? Because they are secretly fantasizing about that woman and looking for an opportunity to f*ck her. Let’s be real, and let’s talk about it!