Imagine you meet the man of your dreams. He's hot. He's got money and you two have wild sexual chemistry and banter. But then you get the sneaky suspicion that he's hiding you. Or imagine you find out that a new love interest has *coughs* an acquired taste in porn. Carrie and Miranda find themselves faced with the complicated nature of sex with a new partner this episode and it begs the question, is all new sex kind of secret?

In this episode we're diving right in answering these questions:

Have you ever had fabulous sex with someone you don't want to admit to ?

• How do you feel about sex on the first date/link?

• Has anyone ever told you to keep your intimacies private or seemed embarrassed?

• Was secret sex the ultimate form of intimacy , since it existed in the purest state, exempt from judgement?

  
  

  Come sit and have a chat with your hosts Cam and Mel in this episode of Black in the City!

  
  

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