I know we all want to make everyone happy. You are planning this wedding to not only have the best day of your life but to also make sure everyone is enjoying themselves right?  There is a fine line on making sure your guests are good and making sure you are checking in with yourself and knowing you are good.  Are the centerpieces yours, or were they your moms?  Is the dress the one you wanted, or did you go with the ones that your friends that was "so you"?