How many times you've been blindly obey your parents but end up regret, or wish you could be brave enough to reject your parent's commands but too afraid with feeling guilty of become "ungodly/rude/rebellious"? There's a different between attachment and love. Attachment is about fear and dependency (3D), and has more to do with love of self than love of another. Love without attachment is a purest love (5D), because it is not about what others can give you because you're empty, it's about what you can give others because you're full.