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S1E1: The Ultimate Trap That Make Us Fail To Love Again


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In this first episode of Season 1, I sets the stage for a transformative journey. We challenge the conventional approach to relationships—moving away from "quick fixes" and "dating tricks" toward a fundamental reshaping of your personality.

Why do intelligent people struggle with emotional problems? Why does "trying hard" often push people away? The answer lies not in what you do, but in the level at which you think.

In this episode, we cover a bit of everything about the whole season.


  • The difference between "Technique" (memorizing parking spots) and "Principle" (learning to drive).

  • The "Chicken & Rabbit" Problem: How raising your cognitive dimension makes impossible problems disappear.

  • Invalid Thinking: How to stop wasting 70% of your brainpower on anxiety.

  • The "Harem" Mindset: Why people-pleasing puts you in the "concubine" position and lowers your value.

  • How to achieve "Unconscious Competence"—where high-value behavior becomes as natural as walking.

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