What gives you hope? How do you set your mind on God's promise?

I want to help you, brothers and sisters, I want to be a helping voice that keeps you from death. Jesus knows what you need to do so see him and ask. 

I feel that I have had a heart change and Jesus has kept me from failing for a while now. It is amazing to defeat sin and it is encouraging to know that it is possible. Since I have made huge changes, my wife has also chosen to make huge changes. I am more excited about our marriage than I have ever been. My wife is the most supportive person I have ever met. She is a light in my life and sacrifices her flesh every day to enable a stronger marriage. I never thought my marriage would be like this because it is so radically different. Thanks to God for uplifting our marriage from the depths of despair. It is still hard to admit for some reason but, I feel more dependent on my wife than I ever have. She has sacrificed much to enable my current situation. I am grateful for this but a part of me is afraid to rely on another person to that extent.