S1E15 Unraveling Athena - This is a story about identity, patience, accountability, and what can happen when honesty finally replaces silence. Athena’s journey is a reminder that rejection doesn’t always get the final word—and that healing can unfold slowly, imperfectly, and still be real. Athena grew up without a father, raised by a single mother who told her the truth early on: she didn’t know who her genetic father was. As Athena built her own life, marrying her high school sweetheart and becoming a mother herself, the questions she’d carried since childhood became impossible to ignore. Who did she come from? Why did she look the way she did? And where did she truly belong?

After years of unanswered questions, rejected paternity tests, and the exhausting search for truth, a DNA test finally provided a name and opened the door to a family that didn’t know she existed. What followed was a complicated journey marked by secrecy, fear, courage, and, ultimately, connection.

SHOW NOTES

In this conversation, Kara and Athena talk about:

• Growing up without a father and being told “we don’t know who he is”
• Searching for genetic truth through paternity tests and DNA
• Being asked to remain a secret and the toll that silence takes
• The emotional weight of carrying shame that doesn’t belong to you
• Meeting siblings and extended family while navigating secrecy
• The profound role a supportive spouse can play in healing
• Learning to belong without erasing the pain that came before

Everyone has the right to know the truth about where they come from. Unraveling Me speaks to those people impacted by DNA surprises, NPEs (non-paternal event), adoption, assisted reproduction, and other revelations that their parentage isn't entirely what they thought. Having experienced an NPE herself, Kara (through Right To Know and this podcast) seeks to highlight those moments when we learn the most unsettling of secret—who we really are.

At Right To Know, we encourage engagement to facilitate and create real change. As an organization, we are inclusive. We assist adoptees, the donor-conceived community, people with an NPE, birth parents, gamete providers, new genetic family, recipient parents, raising families, and significant others. In learning and growing from each other, we must put the voices of adoptees, donor conceived, and people with an NPE first.

For more information about Right To Know - or if you have a story you want to tell - please visit us at https://righttoknow.us/.

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