Coming out when I was 16 I struggled with finding where I belonged in the gay community. There was not only judgment in the straight community but also in the gay community. To look a certain way, dress a certain way and oh don't forget to love shopping. Although I do kinda love shopping still. Being gay and loving a man is not who I am but just a part of who I am. I began to fall in love with the idea with being who I was and sharing that because if I didn't, I was robbing the wo...