Have you and your fiance had the "let's just elope" conversation yet? Every engaged couple does, and not because they aren't excited to throw a fabulous party but because the cost of weddings is so overwhelming and scary to even talk about. Be brave and tackle this important topic up front, right after getting engaged but before booking a venue and sending out save the dates. It's time to determine your strategy and ballpark a realistic budget. So let's talk money honey.