Unraveling Me

S1E30 Unraveling Nick


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S1 E 30 Unraveling Nick Nick was supposed to receive a DNA test for his birthday, but his parents asked that the gift be delayed. The next day, they sat him down and told him the results might reveal something unexpected. What followed led Nick to a truth he never imagined. 


Through both his book Inconceivably Connected and the "Inconceivably Connected Podcast", Nick has transformed his own discovery into a platform for connection and truth-telling. This episode reminds us that even life-altering truths can also be invitations: to understand ourselves more fully, to connect more honestly, and to realize that identity is often far more expansive than we were first told.


Kara and Nick explore identity, genetic mirroring, family, and what happens when the story you believed about yourself suddenly shifts beneath your feet. 


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In this episode, Kara and Nick discuss:

  • Learning he was donor-conceived the day after his 36th birthday 
  • How his parents’ honesty before the DNA test changed his discovery experience 
  • Discovering 14 half-siblings 
  • The surreal experience of seeing himself reflected in strangers 
  • Nature vs. nurture and the power of genetic mirroring 
  • Navigating new sibling relationships and redefining family 
  • Why his father who raised him remains the hero of his story 


Everyone has the right to know the truth about where they come from. Unraveling Me speaks to those people impacted by DNA surprises, NPEs (non-paternal event), adoption, assisted reproduction, and other revelations that their parentage isn't entirely what they thought. Having experienced an NPE herself, Kara (through Right To Know and this podcast) seeks to highlight those moments when we learn the most unsettling of secret—who we really are.


At Right To Know, we encourage engagement to facilitate and create real change. As an organization, we are inclusive. We assist adoptees, the donor-conceived community, people with an NPE, birth parents, gamete providers, new genetic family, recipient parents, raising families, and significant others. In learning and growing from each other, we must put the voices of adoptees, donor conceived, and people with an NPE first.


For more information about Right To Know - or if you have a story you want to tell - please visit us at https://righttoknow.us/.


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Unraveling MeBy Kara Rubinstein-Deyerin & Alan Katz