In Episode Five of "Passing Thoughts," Jane Mundy dives into an enlightening conversation with the passionate members of Cafe Mortal, Marg, Hazel, and Jude. Recorded at Cafe Piatto in McMahon's Point, Sydney, the discussion centers around the group's origins and their ongoing exploration of death, dying, and the social constructs that surround these inevitable aspects of life. The informal atmosphere allows the women to share how their long-standing friendship has fostered an environment of trust, enabling them to discuss profound topics that many shy away from.

The dialogue not only highlights their individual and collective journeys in confronting death but also critiques modern society's sanitization of mortality. The group shares their experiences and intellectual pursuits, touching upon philosophies such as Stoicism, cultural differences in death practices, and their thoughts on end-of-life choices, ultimately promoting a normalization of death discussions. With references to literature and practices that challenge conventional views, they advocate for a life lived fully, understanding that discussions about death can enhance the quality of our living.

Notable Quotes:

• "This was like taking a plunge into the unknown in order to grow in understanding and acceptance of our inevitable death." - Jude
• "I think trust is very important… a real sense of mutuality, that people are genuine in their desire to share." - Hazel
• "Dying can be a very lonely experience… or it can be a wonderful experience." - Marg
• "Death is a natural process, just like birthing." - Jude
• "It’s all about enjoying this phase of our life as well." - Hazel

In the Before We Go Segment, Marg from Cafe Mortal tells us about her erfect funeral. 

Passing Thoughts is a podcast about life’s final chapter, told with openness, curiosity, and heart. It’s a space to talk about what we usually avoid, because facing death just might help us live better.

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