We have so many worldly desires and goals - things we really want to do and accomplish - and that’s not necessarily a bad thing. But we can’t confuse our worldly desires with God’s call. And just because some of our worldly goals aren’t in conflict with God’s call, doesn’t mean they’re part of what Jesus is calling us to do. We should strive to be the best version of ourselves - the version of ourselves that obeys the commands of Jesus to love the Lord and love others as ourselves. If we strive to be the most loving, caring, just version of ourselves, we’ll be open to the Holy Spirit and to the true call of the Lord.