So basically figuring what you like and what catches your eye and how do you feel about certain situations also how to love yourself and be comfortable with who you are and not being afraid to show it be proud of it and that way if someone thinks they can make fun of you about whatever the topic is it won’t faze you because you’ve already become comfortable and are able to brush it off and laugh. Basically how to enjoy your own company and not need anyone how to be independent and always know that you will have yourself as a best friend and that you may want a friend or not but you will never need nothing from anyone.