In this episode, I’m joined by Relationship Death Doula Yana Rumi for a deep, honest conversation about the death of relationships—whether intentional or not—and what gets born in their wake.

We explore anger and jealousy, not as emotions to bypass or purify, but as powerful somatic experiences. We talk about the unexpected turn-on that can arise when imagining our lovers with others, and what happens when we let sensation move instead of moralizing it.

I also share two original songs in this episode:
“Shut the Fuck Up and Feel It” and “Bitch You’re Crazy.”

The second is dedicated to a relationship I’ve just ended—offered in all its beauty, expression, grief, and erotic charge that has been wanting to move through me.

Yana brings their sharp clarity and tenderness to the conversation, drawing from their work accompanying people through relational endings and transitions.

You can explore more of Yana’s writing and work here:
📘 Book: https://a.co/d/3kEsrns
✍️ Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/smplmgk