Black At It: The Next Adventure

S2 Ep 2: Building a Strong Partnership in Marriage with Dr. Dionne Ledford


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There are many nuances to a long and happy marriage, and it seems that everyone has a different opinion about what makes a successful marriage. What should dating or courtship look like? Is a long “getting to know each other” period necessary? Join us as we talk to today’s guest about the key ingredients to a lasting marriage.

Dr. Dionne Ledford is a marriage veteran with almost 33 years under her belt. She is the superintendent of the Roseville Community Charter School District in New Jersey. She’s a proud mother of two who has invested over 32 years of her life in the field of education.

Show Highlights:

  • The story of Dionne’s courtship and marriage, which began in her college years at Hampton University
  • Why it’s important not to lose yourself and your ambitions because you fall in love; “Know yourself first.”
  • Why young women need to understand their value as a person and realize that a man doesn’t make their value or bring fulfillment to their lives
  • How Dionne and her husband both understand how to give each other the space to be themselves and achieve their dreams
  • How to balance expectations and reality with a partner in life
  • How to achieve longevity in your marriage by “choosing marriage” EVERY day through all the ebbs and flows
  • How to handle times that seem routine and unexciting, like being stuck in a rut with the day-to-day grind
  • How family relationships and friendships can change when you get married
  • Why no marriage is immune to life’s twists and turns
  • Marriage advice from Dionne that she has given her own daughter, who is getting married soon
  • How to prepare for being “empty-nesters” in your marriage (Dionne and her husband approach this stage of life in different ways!)
  • What marriage has taught Dionne over the years about herself and what it takes to make a committed, sustained partnership
  • How to handle differences in parenting styles with your spouse, learning when to step back and when to push forward
  • Why marriage is a firm foundation for family, love, and partnership—something that benefits our community in many ways

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