This Was Supposed to be Easy Podcast

S2 Episode 56: We Thought Using Time Was Supposed to be Easy!


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What happens when a fiction book opens the door to a very real conversation about time, memory, connection, and the lives we’re living right now?

In this episode, Amy and Cheryl start by talking about The Seven Year Slip and quickly find themselves reflecting on something much bigger: how strangely time can feel, especially in the years since the pandemic. They explore how easily we lose track of where our time actually goes, how our perception of time shifts as we get older, and why quality time matters more than we sometimes realize.

From parenting milestones and doctoral coursework to scrolling, distraction, and flow, this conversation is a thoughtful reminder that while we can’t manage time itself, we can pay closer attention to how we use it.

Key Topics and Takeaways

  • How The Seven Year Slip sparked a deeper conversation about time and personal growth
  • Why the years since COVID can feel blurred, distorted, or hard to place
  • The difference between the person you were seven years ago and the person you are today
  • How children’s milestones can make the passing of time feel especially visible
  • The idea that we cannot actually manage time, but we can manage our use of time and our energy
  • Why tracking time can reveal surprising gaps between what we think we do and what we actually do
  • How distraction, phones, and multitasking can quietly steal connection
  • The role of quality time in relationships and why it matters so much
  • How flow can make time disappear in the best possible way
  • Why this might be the right moment to think more intentionally about who you want to become and how you want to spend your life getting there
  • Memorable Lines

    • Amy Bond: “It just had me thinking a lot about time as kind of a construct.”
    • Cheryl Priest: “You can’t manage time because time is constant.”
    • Cheryl Priest: “What you can manage is your use of time.”
    • Cheryl Priest: “I was not using the time in the way that I wanted to use the time, and I got caught.”
    • Challenge for the Week

      Try a simple time-awareness experiment.

      At the start of the week, write down how you think you spend your time. Include work, errands, family time, scrolling, rest, hobbies, and anything else that fills your days.

      Then, for one full week, track how you actually spend your time in real time or at the end of each day.

      As you compare the two, ask yourself:

      • Where is my time really going?
      • Where do I feel most energized?
      • Where do I feel disconnected?
      • Am I spending quality time on what matters most to me?
      • What is one small shift I want to make next week?
      • Additional Resources or Links

        • The Seven Year Slip by Ashley Poston
        • The idea of flow and how deep focus changes our experience of time
        • Reflection tools like weekly planners or time-tracking printables to better understand your rhythms and habits
        • Ways to Connect

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