Gratitude is one of the most powerful tools in our relationship toolbox. But many times we do not know how to properly use.

It’s a tool for your relationship toolbox but not because it makes the other person better. It makes you better. You see most tools are used by the operator to (fix, repair, service, maintain, replace) the thing you are working on. Gratitude is one of the few tools the works on the operator using it.

Gratitude is not about the other person, it’s about you. It’s not turning the other person into a minion to get what you want or to get them to where you want them. It’s adjusting your perspective on life so YOU can be repaired!