Return To Practice - The Unshakable Leadership Podcast with Chris Wilson

S2E10: TUM Fundamentals Course, Section 2 - Survival, Shame, The Man Box & Belonging


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This episode is the second part of the Four (4) week Fundamentals Training: “Survival, The Manbox, Shame & Belonging”. I am once again joined by The Unshakable Man Community stewards, Londell Jackson, and Mike Messersmith

We will review the four concepts we use in our community - (Survival, Man Box, Shame, and Belonging) to connect and find a sense of shared meaning and belonging around our relationship with our culture of manhood.


Show Notes: 

  • (03:38): SURVIVAL - How men cultivate protective parts of self by surviving
  • (05:45): The Myth of Monolithic Personality vs. Multiplicity of Self
  • (06:44): Having the will to survive and what happens as we go through the adaptive process of survival
  • (10:33): Why do we gather and train to get into the body?
  • (11:55): What is emotion
  • (13:24): What is shame? 
  • (15:13): Shame is the primary emotion that keeps men in the man box
  • (16:18): What do you think of when you think of shame? 
  • (28:01): Exploring the man box
  • (38:17): Acting tough vs. being the courageous primary caretaker 
  • (47:41): Belonging to a group of men


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Return To Practice - The Unshakable Leadership Podcast with Chris WilsonBy Chris Wilson