August 06, 2025

S3 E30 Who?! From OB-GYN to Intended Parent: Dr. Audrey Puentes on Surrogacy and Support

1 hour 22 minutes

In today’s episode, Whitney is joined by Dr. Audrey Puentes, a board-certified OB-GYN and intended parent who brings a rare and valuable perspective to the surrogacy conversation. As someone who has supported patients through pregnancy and delivery, and also walked the surrogacy journey herself, Audrey understands both sides in a way that few can.

This episode is packed with helpful, practical information specifically for intended parents. We will cover everything from prenatal testing and key pregnancy milestones to the transition from fertility clinic to OB care, how to navigate appointments with your surrogate, and what to expect on delivery day. Audrey also walks us through topics like C-sections, skin-to-skin, discharge planning, and postpartum expectations for surrogates.

Whether you're just starting the process or preparing for the birth of your baby, this conversation offers clear guidance, real-world insight, and reassurance from someone who truly gets it, both professionally and personally.

Takeaways

- Surrogacy can be a daunting process for intended parents.
- Medical professionals also experience emotional challenges during surrogacy.
- Choosing the right OB-GYN is crucial for a supportive experience.
- Intended parents should communicate openly with their surrogate and medical team.
- Understanding the timeline of appointments can alleviate anxiety.
- Routine screenings are essential for monitoring pregnancy health.
- Genetic testing provides valuable information about the fetus.
- Intended parents should feel empowered to ask questions during appointments.
- The transition from fertility clinic to OB care can feel overwhelming.
- Intended parents can choose appointments to attend based on their significance.
- Induction may be planned for convenience, especially for out-of-state parents
- The hospital setup and who can be present during delivery should be discussed beforehand.
- Every pregnancy and delivery experience is unique, requiring tailored communication.
- Discharge for surrogates can vary, but a 24-hour stay is ideal.
- Milk supply may take time to establish.
- It's important to prepare for the unique aspects of C-section deliveries.
- Every family's journey is unique, and there is no wrong way to build a family.