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S3 Ep 72: Leading with Emotional Stability in Times of Change
Ever feel like you're struggling to connect with your congregation or maintain harmony in your ministry? Feel like you're teetering on the brink of burnout? This episode will be your lifeline. Joined by Jay Whittmeyer, the executive director of the Lombard Mennonite Peace Center, we dive into the transformative concept of self-differentiation and its profound significance in ministries. Drawing from Family Systems Theory, we untangle the complex dynamics between the need for community and individuality, and how understanding these can revolutionize the way you lead your ministry.
We then shed light on the importance of emotional maturity and effective management of reactivity in times of change or crisis, such as the recent COVID-19 pandemic. With Whitmire’s insights, we dissect how a calm and responsive leadership style can maintain commitment and connection within the church, even in the face of adversity.
Lastly, we reflect on the critical issue of balance and sustainability in ministry. We discuss the common pitfalls that lead to burnout and share practical tips for cultivating a sustainable approach to your work and life. Highlighting the power of coaching and networking with other ministry leaders, we aim to help you avoid the dreaded 'Crabby Pastor' syndrome. With a focus on aligning with God's purpose and fostering sustainable growth, we aim to equip you to lead your ministry with renewed vitality and joy. So tune in, and let's navigate the ministry landscape together.
Connect with Lombard Mennonite Peace Center's training HERE.
The Peter Steinke book link is HERE.
Edwin Friedman's book link is HERE.
Roberta Gilber's book on Bowen's family systems theory is HERE.
Murray Bowen's book is HERE.
Support the show
This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.
I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, OR if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.
And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too.
Blessings on your journey!
Margie
🦀 🦀 🦀
Transcript
Speaker 1: 0:01
Hey there, Margie Bryce, here bringing you the Krabby Pastor podcast, and I don't think you're going to be too surprised to know that it's too easy today to become the Krabby Pastor. Our time together will give you food for thought to help you be the ministry leader, fully surrender to God's purposes and living into whatever it takes to get you there and keep you there. So we're talking about sustainability in ministry. This is Reverend Dr Margie Bryce, and I am your host of the Krabby Pastor podcast, where we offer you chronic and continual tips on how to lead yourself well, especially in the area of self-care. I am here today with Jay Whitmire, who is the executive director of the Lombard Mennonite Peace Center which is in Illinois Lombard neighborhood of Ill
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By Rev. Dr. Margie BryceEver feel like you're struggling to connect with your congregation or maintain harmony in your ministry? Feel like you're teetering on the brink of burnout? This episode will be your lifeline. Joined by Jay Whittmeyer, the executive director of the Lombard Mennonite Peace Center, we dive into the transformative concept of self-differentiation and its profound significance in ministries. Drawing from Family Systems Theory, we untangle the complex dynamics between the need for community and individuality, and how understanding these can revolutionize the way you lead your ministry.
We then shed light on the importance of emotional maturity and effective management of reactivity in times of change or crisis, such as the recent COVID-19 pandemic. With Whitmire’s insights, we dissect how a calm and responsive leadership style can maintain commitment and connection within the church, even in the face of adversity.
Lastly, we reflect on the critical issue of balance and sustainability in ministry. We discuss the common pitfalls that lead to burnout and share practical tips for cultivating a sustainable approach to your work and life. Highlighting the power of coaching and networking with other ministry leaders, we aim to help you avoid the dreaded 'Crabby Pastor' syndrome. With a focus on aligning with God's purpose and fostering sustainable growth, we aim to equip you to lead your ministry with renewed vitality and joy. So tune in, and let's navigate the ministry landscape together.
Connect with Lombard Mennonite Peace Center's training HERE.
The Peter Steinke book link is HERE.
Edwin Friedman's book link is HERE.
Roberta Gilber's book on Bowen's family systems theory is HERE.
Murray Bowen's book is HERE.
Support the show
This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.
I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, OR if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.
And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too.
Blessings on your journey!
Margie
🦀 🦀 🦀
Transcript
Speaker 1: 0:01
Hey there, Margie Bryce, here bringing you the Krabby Pastor podcast, and I don't think you're going to be too surprised to know that it's too easy today to become the Krabby Pastor. Our time together will give you food for thought to help you be the ministry leader, fully surrender to God's purposes and living into whatever it takes to get you there and keep you there. So we're talking about sustainability in ministry. This is Reverend Dr Margie Bryce, and I am your host of the Krabby Pastor podcast, where we offer you chronic and continual tips on how to lead yourself well, especially in the area of self-care. I am here today with Jay Whitmire, who is the executive director of the Lombard Mennonite Peace Center which is in Illinois Lombard neighborhood of Ill