April 28, 2025

S3 Ep3 - Understanding Child-on-Child Sexual Abuse with Lauren B

52 minutes

Episode Summary:

This episode of Conversations with Kristi delves into the sensitive topic of child-on-child sexual abuse, highlighting the experiences of individuals involved in the ABAR project. It emphasises the misconceptions surrounding children's behaviour in such situations and the importance of recognising the seriousness of these incidents rather than dismissing them as mere experimentation or curiosity.

Key Takeaways:

The ABAR project focuses on child-on-child sexual abuse.

Personal experiences can shape memories and perceptions of abuse.

Misconceptions about children's behaviour can be harmful.

Child-on-child sexual abuse is often underreported and misunderstood.

It's crucial to recognise the seriousness of such incidents.

Psychological support is vital for survivors of abuse.

Awareness and education are key in addressing these issues.

Children's experiences should not be trivialised or dismissed.

The impact of abuse can vary based on frequency and context.

Conversations about child abuse need to be more open and honest.

Episode Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Child Abuse Prevention
03:27 Lauren's Journey as a Survivor
05:52 The Importance of Trauma-Informed Care
07:17 Navigating the Disclosure Process
10:53 The Impact of Dismissive Language
12:39 Understanding Child-on-Child Abuse
17:32 The Complexity of Child-on-Child Abuse
24:14 The Need for Better Terminology
26:20 The Role of Education in Prevention
30:05 Understanding Victim Behaviour and Support
33:03 Finding Purpose Through Helping Others
35:47 Parental Guidance on Child Safety
41:07 Improving Police Response to Victims
47:33 The Need for Support Services in Reporting Abuse
49:34 Balancing Healing and Advocacy
51:57 Introduction to Child Safety Education