Conversations with Kristi

S3 Ep6 - Hope and Forgiveness in Parenting with Nikki Butler


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Episode Summary:

In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, we catch up with Nikki Butler to discuss the importance of teaching protective behaviours to children and instilling a sense of hope for parents who may feel they have missed opportunities in their children's upbringing. She discusses the significance of recognising non-verbal cues and behaviours that indicate harm, and encourages parents to forgive themselves for past mistakes, highlighting that it is never too late to start making positive changes in their parenting approach.

Key Takeaways:

  • It's never too late to start teaching protective behaviours.
  • Parents should forgive themselves for past parenting mistakes.
  • Recognising nonverbal cues is crucial in understanding children.
  • There are ways to work with young people effectively.
  • Hope is an essential element in parenting.
  • Teaching kids about safety is a continuous journey.
  • Understanding a child's language of harm is important.
  • Parents can always improve their skills and knowledge.
  • It's vital to address missed opportunities in parenting.
  • Support and resources are available for parents.
  • Episode Chapters:

    00:00 - Introduction to Child Protection and Safety
    02:40 - Nikki Butler's Journey in Child Safety
    07:39 - Working with Young Mothers and Their Challenges
    11:08 - Navigating Teenage Years: Parenting Challenges
    16:45 - Understanding Teen Development and Identity
    30:56 - Building Communication and Connection with Teens
    37:21 - The Importance of Communication in Parenting
    39:36 - Understanding Teen Emotions and Self-Expression
    45:36 - Navigating Risky Behaviours in Adolescents
    50:16 - Recognising Changes in Teen Behaviour
    57:33 - Building Connections with Teen Friends
    01:01:34  -The Power of Vulnerability and Sharing Experiences
    01:08:37 - Introduction to Child Safety Education

    For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources

    You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/6FiPVbiu4sI

    To learn more and connect with Nikki please head to www.nikkibutler.com.au and follow her on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/nikki-butler-577132149/

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    Conversations with KristiBy Kristi McVee