April 22, 2025

S3 NIAW E2 Who?! Kiely Shimabukuro - Building Community Through Surrogacy

50 minutes

Summary

In this episode, Kiely Shimabukuro takes us through her incredible journey as a four-time gestational carrier, sharing the experiences that have shaped her dedication to the surrogacy community. She talks about the importance of validation and connection, the challenges faced by surrogates, and how her passion for advocacy led her to create a safe space for sharing experiences and seeking advice. From blogging about her journey to writing books and launching a support group with Resolve, Kiely emphasizes the power of community and education. She also highlights the emotional support she received from her husband and the critical role of resources and a supportive agency in ensuring a positive surrogacy experience. This episode is a testament to the beauty of connection and the value of finding the right support in the world of surrogacy.

Takeaways

-Blogging was a way for Kiely to share her experiences and connect with others.
-Social media platforms like TikTok have allowed Kiely to reach a wider audience.
-The support group for surrogates is the first of its kind, focusing on their unique needs.
-Kiely emphasizes the importance of community and validation for surrogates.
-The 'Send a Friend' program aims to connect surrogates in need with experienced peers.
-Kiely believes that every surrogate's journey is unique and deserves to be heard.
-Kiely hopes to empower surrogates through shared experiences and support.
-Asking questions is crucial in understanding the surrogacy process.
-Navigating skepticism about surrogacy requires confidence in one's motivations.
-Choosing a reputable agency can significantly impact the surrogacy experience.
-Surrogacy can be a fulfilling experience despite societal perceptions.
-It's important for surrogates to advocate for themselves and their needs.
-Having a supportive partner is vital for a successful surrogacy journey.
-Resources like books and support groups can help surrogates feel more prepared.
-The landscape of surrogacy is evolving with more resources available now than in the past.
-Building a community can help surrogates navigate their journeys more effectively.