Who are you—really? Welcome to "the side conversations"—a space for raw, unfiltered reflections on the things that weigh heavy on my heart. These are the conversations that I can’t keep to myself— a deep dive into the lessons, struggles, and revelations from my own journey.

In this solo episode, I’m unpacking the weight of identity and the danger of tying it to just one thing. We often define ourselves by our careers, achievements, relationships, or even failures. But what happens when those things shift? When you lose the job, the title, or the sense of certainty you once had?

Failure is not your identity. Neither is success. Your worth isn’t determined by a single moment, a role you play, or a season you’re in. It’s easy to get so consumed by one aspect of your life that you start believing it is your entire existence. But you are more than that.

Let’s have an honest conversation about detaching from false identities, embracing growth, and rediscovering who you are beyond what you do.

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