Change is inevitable because nothing stays the same. It is true that where we come from and life itself may shape us in a manner which is harmful as we mature. It may also cause a great awakening if we keep our eyes and ears open. Stay vigilant, and never assume that one is captivated forever by manipulation, or will forever seem weak because of their past. You don’t know when the revelation will surface, but you may be surprised that she doesn’t see you as she used to. Imagine that. The experience you gave her was her best teacher!