Divorce doesn’t have to be a five-year war. Family law partner Alan “Al” Feigenbaum (Blank Rome) explains why protecting emotional capital—your time, headspace, and peace—often beats “winning” one more term on paper. We talk about leaving commercial litigation to work with people, the post-pandemic return of courtroom theatrics, how to set boundaries so your phone doesn’t run your life, and why stepping away for thirty minutes can save a case. Al also shares pro bono work with veterans, parenting teens, travel, books he’s reading, and a human twist you won’t expect.If you’re navigating divorce, advising clients, or just rethinking conflict, this conversation offers a practical path to exit sooner and heal smarter. Watch, subscribe, and share with someone who needs a perspective shift.Learn more about Alan Feigenbaum Bio: https://www.blankrome.com/people/alan-r-feigenbaumLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alan-feigenbaum/Watch more episodes and connect with Denisa here: https://tovaretirement.com/podcast/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/denisatovaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/denisatovaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/denisatova/Podcast Production by HypeCats.com, webinars, and podcasts: https://hypecats.com.