Uncommon Purpose

s4.E5 | Planning for Presence: Purposeful Holiday Prep


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It’s officially Christmas preseason—and Mandy and Stephanie are diving in! From November 1st on, the holidays arrive fast, and this conversation helps listeners trade stress for sacred preparation.

Together they unpack how to plan your home, heart, and calendar with intention—without losing sight of joy or Jesus. Stephanie shares her beloved “holiday planner” system (and her famous stocking traditions), while Mandy reflects on evolving family rhythms, new gift ideas, and holding space for both celebration and grief.

They talk trees, playlists, budgeting, Advent, and the tension between being organized and being present. You’ll hear practical tips for planning gifts and gatherings, as well as encouragement for those entering the season feeling lonely or overwhelmed.

Whether you’re an over-prepper, a spontaneous spirit, or somewhere in between, this episode will help you create a holiday that reflects your values—not your to-do list.

Listen for:

🎄 Mandy’s take on the “Christmas preseason”

🎁 Stephanie’s system for stocking stuffers that mean something

🕯️ How to plan with presence and purpose

💡 Why values—not pressure—should shape your holiday

❤️ Encouragement for those feeling lonely or overextended

🎄 Practical Planning Topics

  • Gift-Giving Framework: one thing you want, one thing you need, one thing to wear, one thing to read (and why their families are evolving that!)
  • Holiday Planner: Stephanie’s early-season checklist (decor, menus, shopping, experiences)
  • Holiday “Big Rocks” Principle: prioritizing what matters most before adding the extras
  • Intentional Advent Practice: how both hosts keep Jesus at the center
  • Stocking Stuffers vs. Gifts: creating small, personal touches that feel meaningful
  • Traditions & Trees: how multi-tree households became a thing 😉
  • Music & Atmosphere: swapping playlists, sharing favorite classics + modern mixes

💡 Faith & Reflection

  • Advent as a rhythm of spiritual preparation
  • Planning rest and Sabbath amid celebration
  • How intentionality helps cultivate gratitude and joy
  • Inviting others in: reaching out to those who may feel lonely or disconnected
  • Living “on purpose and for a purpose” through the holiday season

🎁 Things to Include in Show Notes (Mentions)

Mandy & Stephanie’s Holiday Playlists

Stephanie’s: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1ESUiIf67qzypkP6VQeWsu?si=o2t1HvXgSWazL22sf0zgzw&pi=-420hi46SPeoK

Mandy’s: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5qq0umg7ZExBmzmNGBgJFp?si=V7X2pwWpT6WDiljDJ5s1OQ

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Uncommon PurposeBy Mandy Cooley and Stephanie Porter