Aaron Miller, an award-winning elder law attorney, was personally motivated by his own family’s tragedy: his grandparents lost everything paying privately for a decade of nursing-home care, and years later his grandfather had nothing left, forcing Miller’s parents to drain their own retirement savings. He warns that “beauty shop and coffee shop” myths and outdated advice lead people to believe Medicare will cover it (it doesn’t, beyond a possible 100 days of rehab) or that simply giving assets to children is safe (it usually isn’t). The result is panic, massive financial loss, and heirs left with little or nothing.