Many of you have experienced great losses in life -the bankruptcy of your business, the loss of a job, the death of a child, or the loss of a life partner. The waves of grief--the shock, denial, and numbness followed by floods of anger, fear, anxiety and depression -feel like life has become a gigantic storm at sea. How can we find solace in the storm? Can we be sure that we and our loved ones will land safe on shore?