Chris Bennett talks about Samson's marriage as a guide to what not to do. He looks at how resentment and our perception that we have a right to get even can cause situations to escalate. He also notes that here in Belfast we literally live in the shadow of Samson, and that Samson moves. Even the biggest, most intractable feud can be moved by God's power, and we have to surrender our hurt and resentment to God's love, justice and control.