Welcome to the first ever Sex and...Television!

For those of you who are obsessed with the Canadian homo hockey romance Heated Rivalry, here's a convo for you. Dan and sex therapist Claire Perelman dish, discuss and swoon over the super-horny show.

Enjoy!

Happy New Year, and a very happy Feast of the Ass to you and yours. 

In honor of the holiday, our first caller asks if he should keep a cup of mouthwash handy for when he moves from ass-eating to pussy-eating. 

A man wants strategies on how to talk his sister out of circumcising her newborn son. 

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Ellen Huet, a plucky, investigative journalist who uncovered an exploitative sex cult that revolves around female orgasm. Her book EMPIRE OF ORGASM about OneTaste, a sexual wellness company is amazing, and she and Dan had a LOT to talk about. 

And, a poly woman wonders if when making introductions, she should reveal the poly status of two friends, so they know they are all “in the lifestyle.”

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Christine and her husband went to a kinky viking party (as one does,) and had a very HOT time.

"How attached are you to these nipple hairs?"

If you have an amazing or appalling story to share, DO NOT KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.

Write it up and send it in to [email protected] with the subject line: After Action Report. Maybe we'll get back to you!

It's the 1000th episode of the Savage Lovecast. We started in 2006, when George W. Bush was President. And look at us now!

We packed this show with as many quick questions as we could. (One minute or less.) And Dan answered as quickly as he could. And! We invited long time friends of the show to pop on and answer some questions as well: Ezra Klein, Esther Perel, Mistress Matisse, Mike Pesca, Therapy Jeff, Doc Barak, Joan Price, Dan's Producer Nancy, and Dan's husband Terry. The gang's all here! You'll get an inside look at how the show is made, and how Dan has evolved over these many years.

Some of the questions asked and answered: What is up with "Yahtzee?" Does "pegging" come from pirates? Does blood make for good lube? Who listens to all the calls that come in? Do you get a weird feeling when you dig in your bellybutton?

Happy New Year and thanks for listening everyone!

Your resolution? Get on the show.

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Her needs were simple. She wanted to wear a trench coat with nothing underneath and to pretend to be a high-end escort for her boyfriend.

He gladly obliged and their session was full of surprises....

If you have a dirty little story you would like to share of your first time doing something unspeakably hot, writer it up and send it in to [email protected] with subject line: After Action Report. Fill our inbox.

"Who will buy my smelly panties?" A woman realizes that it would be a waste to just wash them.

A married man in an open relationship wishes his wife would be as affectionate as his lovers.

On the Magnum, it's everybody's favorite guy who knows things about sports...Mike Pesca! (Host and creator of The Gist, the longest running daily news and analysis podcast, and the author of Upon Further Review: The Greatest What-Ifs In Sports History.) Dan and Mike go over the particulars of the steamy Canadian show "Heated Rivalry" to determine how closely it hews to the sport called "hockey."

And, a gay man is tempted to sleep with guys who are in monogamous relationships. He wants to be a "gay's gay"- a good upstanding gay. Not some home-wrecking gay. But he also would very much like to sleep with these lads...will Dan advise him to listen to the angel or the devil on his shoulder?

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The scene: it's a secret threeway, upstairs at the party. 2 men, one woman, 2 minutes, one orgasm.

To hear more salacious deets, tune in.

We've heard of speed dating...but this is a whole other level.

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A gay man has been a top for all of his sexual life. Now that's he's a dating a man who wants to top him every now and again, can he learn to like it?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Kelly Foster Lundquist, Author of "Beard." 20 years after her divorce from her closeted gay husband, Lundquist writes about her experience as a "beard." She and Dan discuss how unfair and damaging the closet can be.

After 10 glorious days, a straight man got dumped and then ghosted. Which hurts more?

Ouch

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A married woman and her husband agreed to open the marriage up, with clear rules and boundaries. Guess what! He flagrantly broke the rules. Now, she is considering sleeping with someone else as a form of revenge. Too toxic?

A divorced woman is still very good friends with her husband. She's so close with him, that her boyfriends break up with her over it. Are they just jealous or is she part of the problem?

On the Magnum, it's a "What You Got?" with Dr. Alicia Walker who recently published a study about infidelity. She is a sociologist who digs into the sexual lives people keep under wraps: infidelity, kink, secret same-sex behavior, and other closeted practices. She and Dan talk about the stigma against cheating, and the conditions under which it can be the moral choice.

And, what is the actual difference between porn and prostitution? Sex work is sex work right?

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, world traveller, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From pegging, to negging, cross-dressing to cuckolding and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

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Dream fulfilled. How did it go? What did he wear? Who brought the gear?

All of your (and Dan's) nosey questions are answered.

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