Saving Fatherhood Podcast

Dr. Speers is a survivor of abuse who pledged to use all she learned in life to help others in the future. Today, as a survivor, she asks God to continue to watch over her and give me the strength to continue overcoming chronic illnesses and injuries to reach my life’s goal of helping survivors of trauma.

https://youtu.be/kkcb9_ifbwM

On March 5th, 2021 FAN-PAC of New Jersey (www.fanpacnj.org/donate) held a legal symposium followed by a question and answer session with Attorney Steven M. Resnick, Esq., a partner at Ziegler, Resnick & Epstein. He is a matrimonial and family lawyer and one of New Jersey’s trailblazing practitioners in custody matters and the area of parental alienation.

A highly skilled litigator, Mr. Resnick handles all aspects of matrimonial and family law relating to divorce, equitable distribution, palimony, annulment, high net worth, pre-nuptial and post-nuptial agreements, business valuations, real estate, domestic violence, custody and visitation, paternity, estate/will contests, judgment/agreement modification, appeals, N.J. Supreme Court maters, trial, and case second opinions, among others. Mr. Resnick has also served as co-counsel for numerous out-of-state matters.

Mr. Resnick recently broke new legal ground in New Jersey on the subject of parental alienation and has argued before the Appellate Division of New Jersey and New Jersey Supreme Court on many other matrimonial and family law issues, as well.

Below are the questions from the Q&A period. If you have a question about this event please reach out to [email protected]. If you are interested in learning more about FAN PAC or supporting their efforts please use the following links. https://www.fanpacnj.org/donate

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My case and many others in New Jersey would indicate the family court system has failed to meet its obligation as noted in 9:2-4, 'The Legislature finds and declares that it is in the public policy of this State to assure minor children of frequent and continuing contact with both parents after the parents have separated or dissolved their marriage and that it is in the public interest to encourage parents to share the rights and responsibilities of child rearing'

In your opinion, is the family court functioning as it should in high conflict custody cases?  

If so please discuss how?  If not, what does the system need to meet this objective?  

It cost me $230k in legal fees to defend my right and obligation to maintain a relationship and support my children.  Once the money ran out so did my lawyer.  Is a lawyers job only to vigorously defend me when there is money?

What are the professional conflicts a family law attorney must weigh?  Is a lawyer an officer of the court first? Then represent their clients interests?  

Do family court judges have too much discretion? How can I get a court order enforced? I have been trying to for years but, they run me around in an expensive circle.

Can you sue the court /judge for PTSD Associated with alienation and numerous years of abuse during trial?

"January 1, 2018 my ex and I are divorced (vanilla - almost 50/50 & no mention of abuse). June, 2018 my ex is interviewed. The night prior, I am told by our son; ""Dad, you would lie if it meant more money for your family, right?""My ex received $10k to say ""I abused her and my kids"".

I have a liable/slander case against the corporation whom paid her and posted my kids pics on their website.My question: when & if my ex or my kids claim ""abuse""; isn't that...

March 4th, 2021 – THE SAVING FATHERHOOD – WEEKLY HOPECAST

FIRST ANNOUNCEMENT

I want to personally invite each and every one of you to a ZOOM event this Friday March 5th at 7pm.  FAN-PAC is New Jersey’s Family Advocate Network – A Political Action committee with a mission to advocate for reforms in the family court that protect the interests of children and families in the state of New Jersey.  This Friday this online event will feature an attorney Steven M. Resnick, Esq.  who among other areas of family law promotes his experience in the area of parental alienation? 

* Submit questions ahead of time – here* [email protected]* Live question and answer period* Register in advance for zoom credentials* https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZAuce6trTwoHN0oXTfZHOhSSPsx8gaxKq5m?mc_cid=7cfd08dedb&mc_eid=53479cb507

 SECOND ANNOUNCEMENT

Breakfast with Bacon – airing on AM 1110 WKQASAVING FATHERHOOD WILL BE ON THIS SHOW ON MARCH 26TH

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Fridays from 11:00 until noon on AM1110 WKQA

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THIRD ANNOUNCEMENT

Clean Law Union Podcast –

A NEW PODCAST

HOST – JOE GORMLEY

https://www.cleanlawunion.com/shows

I meet many alienated parents and victims of broken families and they all ask the same question.  They say “How long, oh Lord”?  But they leave out the Lord part.  “How long, oh Lord” is a common question in the psalms and all over scripture –

Psalm 13:1, 79:5, 89:46, 94:3, 6:3, 35:17, and there are many more places in scripture lamenting the same desire for rescue from many things.  I think the cry from broken families is best described in Psalm 94:3 which says            3       O LORD, how long shall the wicked, how long shall the wicked exult?

But who are the wicked?  Who are we calling upon the Lord to crush on our behalf?  Is it our ex-wife or husband?  Is it the person we are still married to who is dragging us through the courts?   Is it a judge, an attorney or a psychologist, that we blame for our problems?  Is it a politician or a political party that deserves our wrath and by extension, God’s wrath?  We may reason that if God were just he would promptly strike down our enemies because of their ongoing, unrepentant sin. The problem with these theories is it ignores what Scripture teaches us about sin, God’s holiness, and how he handles evil.  There is no doubt that the alienated parent’s cause is just.  When the alienated parent cries out because their child has been taken from them either physically or emotionally it is not a cry that goes...

Tonight your Saving Fatherhood host speaks with Julie “X” attorney at large, a certified mediator and family court reform advocate with mediation experience in the New Jersey family court system. Julie is a member of FAN PAC – Family Advocate Network – Political Action Commitee.

This is a two part discussion discussing

FAN-PAC event on December 4th at 7 PM. Please register on the FAN PAC website –

https://www.fanpacnj.org/events

2. Benefits of membership in FAN-PAC

PRESUMED GUILTY - An appeal to North Carolina Governor Roy Cooper to save a family from being destroyed.

Presumed Guilty - Episode 37 with Daddy X - A father who can't give out his name without risking imprisonment. How can he defend himself?

How many of you entered family court presuming you would get a fair trial? How many of you expected that justice was the goal, and that while injustice was something that sometimes happened the system was designed to protect your rights as a parent.

For Father X of North Carolina the fragility of "parental rights" came in the form of a protective order. The protective order was issued in a meeting that Father X did not attend. He wasn't invited to share his side of the story.

He wasn't told what he was guilty of. He was told that he could face jail time if he or anyone on his behalf attempted to contact his wife or children.

Why does the state want to prevent reunification of marriages? How can this father attempt to save his family if he can't legally contact them?

Father X can't even help them get out of a shelter because he can't contact his children.

On this podcast we discuss the details of the protection order, how it keeps this father from revealing his identity and most importantly how it prevents him from protecting his family.

WE INVITE YOU TO PARTICIPATE IN THE CHANGE.ORG PETITION LINK BELOW. HERE IS THE TEXT OF THE PETITION.



Two homeless children in North Carolina are being kept from their father who wants to provide a home for them. The mother has filed and received a protective order that keeps the father from contacting the mother to offer help or try to save the marriage. The protective order does not accuse the father of any violence against the mother or the children. The father denies any violence against the mother or the children. This protective order was granted in a hearing where the father was not invited or allowed to present evidence in his defense. The father was stripped of his parental rights without any opportunity to plead not-guilty. This father stripped of his parental rights for nothing more than an accusation of verbal abuse. Because the protective order was granted this father can not legally contact his wife or care for his children. The father can't even reveal his identity because this request could be considered a violation of the protective order.

This father loves his wife and the two children they have together and he legally can't tell them that because of this protective order. The father wants to offer the mother a place to live separate from him while they engage in discussions to improve their relationship and restore the family. The father does not want his children living in a shelter or multiple shelters because it is reported that the mother was asked to leave the first shelter she was in.

It is in the best interest of the children for Governor Roy Cooper of North Carolina to remove the protective order so this father can tell his wife he loves her. It is in the best interest of children for the father to be able to ask for forgiveness. It is in the best interest of the children to restore this father's parental rights.

Please sign this petition and ask Governor Roy Cooper to intervene, rescind this protective order and give these children back their father!!

You can hear the father share his story on the latest podcast episode on SavingFatherhood.org.

Today's episode is a conversation wtih Aaron Wemple, founder of Clean Law a new way to navigate family courts.You can purchase Aaron's book on Amazon - HERE. or directly from the CleanLaw.Today website. About today's guest Aaron WempleAaron W. Wemple is an author, social entrepreneur at Clean Law, and co-founder of CLU family trial research and support group.

          As an entrepreneur, Aaron’s venture Clean Law started off with the dream of every child having a family. So, his team went to work developing a safer private network (SPN), which includes a child safety file system, or what’s called Family Law 2.0. And to accomplish the goal of every child having a family, the company donates all proceeds from product licensing Family Law 2.0 to CLU parents who are in desperate need of a right to be represented in classical family law courts when they are indigent, a right to bail policy when accusations are made, and encouragement to bear their own family sustainability crosses. Especially when they’re unwillingly involved in decades of divorce protocols. Clean Law provides a safer experience for families through military deployments, quarantines, divorce, and other life-altering trials.

          Clean Law is grateful for many achievements, including:

* Provided free community resources* Rewarding family connection-keeping milestones* “My Lead Style” smartphone app* Seven books on Amazon* Numerous TV interviews, speaking engagements, and articles

          published in other professional publications. 

          Before devoting his life to Christ and their vision of Clean Law, Aaron served as the facility administrator of the Old King’s Orchard Community Center in Decatur, IL, a co-founder of Clean Law Union (CLU) family trial group, and a member of Sheet Metal Workers Union. He teaches the Bible at Water Street Mission homeless shelter and writes grants for Decatur Cares Rescue Missions.

          Aaron has an education in electrical engineering and psychology, which turned out to be a perfect blend for his product. Now their peer-to-peer team makes clean law & clarity for improved peace of mind and next-generation safety.

MARYANN PETRI, author of the new book called, “Dismantling Family Court Corruption.” Subtitle, Why taking the Kids was not enough.

SHOW NOTES!

* False allegations which brought her into this mess.* The family court motive was to take away the kids (motive is child support)a. They didn’t want to hear about thatb. Couldn’t work being around kids.c. Can’t work no money.* Debtors prison!* Heart Attack 5 months later.a. Wouldn’t adjust child support.* Canadian Film producer to make a movie about the book!* Are Narcissists irredeemable? * Female version of Job?* Pennsylvania HB 1397 - In favor of 50/50 shared parenting * Are you in favor of equal shared parenting?* Was the bill written properly in your opinion?* Accountability for Judges.

LINKS

Please visit

https://dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com

To purchase the book -

https://dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/shop

or go to Amazon

https://www.amazon.com/Dismantling-Family-Court-Corruption-Taking/dp/1648718361/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3NB9L9X7KQD33&dchild=1&keywords=dismantling+family+court+corruption&qid=1589418698&sprefix=Disman%2Caps%2C153&sr=8-1

Source book for the proposed movie - Custody Denied!

On the back of my Saving Fatherhood business cards is the verse Genesis 50:20. It’s a great verse for anyone who has suffered and wondered, "has God abandoned me?". We all need hope, especially when trials are long. We pray for God to lighten our burdens and if we look for comfort everywhere. Sometimes it may be easier to accept the idea that God is punishing us. But that’s not necessarily true. Sure when we sin we may be choosing to inflict suffering upon ourselves but God is merciful and long suffering. He gives us warnings to stay away from sin to help us not to suffer. But as the sovereign Lord of all creation he certainly could step in but sometimes he doesn’t. Reading about the story of Joseph in Genesis 50:20 points us to an instance when God used suffering for good. The verse reads:

20 As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people[a] should be kept alive, as they are today.

This is the story of Joseph and the trials he had to go thru were significant. First his brothers tried to kill him but they decided to spare his life when one of the brothers suggested profiting off of Joseph by selling him into slavery. As a slave he was falsely accused of trying to rape his Master’s wife. So off to prison he went. He spent at least 2 years in prison and another 11 years in slavery. But God did rescue him and without ruining the story he became a very powerful man in Egypt. When famine came throughout the region his brothers came to buy food and Joseph was there to meet them, in a position to help them or deny them. Joseph saw God’s hand at work to help his family to survive.

That’s when Joseph said what is written in Genesis 50:20 to his brothers.

20 As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people[a] should be kept alive, as they are today.

Now it was not easy for Joseph. You need to read the details. He struggled with anger and bitterness, but He knew that God is sovereign and faithful. Now while we don’t always see what God is doing we can trust that he’s doing something. As I look at this current crisis, I see a lot of other people suffering because they lost their rights. I wonder if the tyranny people are experiencing will be used for good. Will this tyranny bring compassion for family court victims?

Last Tuesday on April 28th, 2002 I drove north to Trenton, NJ to participate in a rally outside of the Trenton War Memorial Building. The event coincided with Governor Phil Murphy’s address to the state. After that rally and another rally, King Murphy decided to open up some state parks, beaches and golf courses but they he changed his mind and closed some as well. There is also another rally tomorrow

Thursday, May 7th1:00 PM - 03:00 PMSee map[May 7, 2020, 137 W State Street, Trenton, NJ 08608

FOR MORE INFO - [email protected]

Now my intention was not just to be a protestor although I feel very strongly that we need to open New Jersey immediately. If you are a family court victim fighting for your rights I can’t understand why you would not support freedom unless you are scared, and as a Christian I realize I need to respect your views while I make cogent arguments to persuade you that we can’t love our neighbor by trying to control our neighbors. My intention was to interview other protestors to find out what they know about family courts and to help these people realize that ...

This is part 2 of our podcast started on Episode 32. Our guest again is Tamara Sweeney, President of the nonprofit, 501c3, Love Dominates. If you didn't listen to that one you should go back and listen to the first but you should be able to jump in here as well. We went into depth with a lot of great topics about the list below.

Our Topic is Spiritual Warfare

1. Good vs Evil (Empaths vs Narcs)

2. Parental Alienation

3. Fear, Shame Guilt

4. Covid 19 (how it impacts our community)

5. God wants us to love one another, many cultures, colors, religions, one human race!LOVE DOMINATES

Get a LOVE DOMINATES T-Shirt or Bracelet (CLICK HERE OR BELOW)

Have you been to LoveDominates.com? Do you have questions you want to ask Tamara? Post your questions at SavingFatherhood.org Facebook Group – follow this link –https://www.facebook.com/groups/1155267604808470/?ref=bookmarksThis podcast is not live but it will be posted before 10PM EST on Wednesday April 22, 2020.

You can listen on the web at www.savingfatherhood.org or

On Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/saving-fatherhood-podcast/id1294059711

On Google Podcasts – https://podcasts.google.com/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9zYXZpbmdmYXRoZXJob29kLm9yZy9mZWVkL3BvZGNhc3Qv

On Stitcher – https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/saving-fatherhood?refid=stprTamara was a great guest and the show went long so we broke it into two parts. Part two will be posted in a couple of days.

Our guest tonight on the Saving Fatherhood Podcast, Tamara Sweeney, President of the nonprofit, 501c3, Love Dominates.

Our Topic is Spiritual Warfare

1. Good vs Evil (Empaths vs Narcs)

2. Parental Alienation

3. Fear, Shame Guilt

4. Covid 19 (how it impacts our community)

5. God wants us to love one another, many cultures, colors, religions, one human race!LOVE DOMINATES

Get a LOVE DOMINATES T-Shirt or Bracelet (CLICK HERE OR BELOW)

Have you been to LoveDominates.com? Do you have questions you want to ask Tamara? Post your questions at SavingFatherhood.org Facebook Group - follow this link -https://www.facebook.com/groups/1155267604808470/?ref=bookmarksThis podcast is not live but it will be posted before 10PM EST on Wednesday April 22, 2020.

You can listen on the web at www.savingfatherhood.org or

On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/saving-fatherhood-podcast/id1294059711

On Google Podcasts - https://podcasts.google.com/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9zYXZpbmdmYXRoZXJob29kLm9yZy9mZWVkL3BvZGNhc3Qv

On Stitcher - https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/saving-fatherhood?refid=stprTamara was a great guest and the show went long so we broke it into two parts. Part two will be posted in a couple of days.