A devotee feels reformed when all his wishes and desires get dissolved into Divine will. There are mainly three words prefixed with sw ( self)

Swadharm (one’s natural line of duty)

Swabhaav (one’s nature/disposition)

Swaabhimaan (self respect)

Devotional love enables us to replace this 'self' with God. As a result, devotees carry out all their duties as compliance to Him only, their disposition conforms to His pleasure and they work for His glory instead of personal esteem. All their feelings of meeting Him even dissolve in His will and they feel proud of just one thing - belonging to their Lord.