Ever wonder where to draw the line between romantic pursuit and something more alarming? This raw, unfiltered episode tackles a situation that started with a casual mention on our podcast and spiraled into something much more concerning.

When Lyanette received an unexpected email from someone Shiney had gone on just one date with months ago, we decided to address it head-on. 

The conversation dives deep into the misconceptions about romance versus stalking, with powerful insights about personal boundaries and why they matter. We explore how seemingly innocent information shared during early dating—your city, your schedule, even your first name—can be pieced together by someone determined to find you. Lyanette's 24-year-old daughter, Kaylin, joins us midway through, offering a younger generation's perspective that's refreshingly direct: rejection is part of dating, and nobody is entitled to your attention after one date.

Most powerfully, we reclaim the narrative around Shiney's happiness. The emailer had attempted to take credit for her "glow," but as she eloquently explains, "My glow is not from any person. I own my glow. I'm glowing and joyful and happy because I choose that." It's a reminder that our joy comes from within, not from external validation or relationships.

Whether you're newly single after years in a relationship or navigating the complexities of modern dating, this conversation offers crucial insights about protecting yourself while staying open to genuine connection. Share your thoughts or your own dating safety tips with us at [email protected]—just know your email might inspire our next episode!

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