Prefer to listen instead? Just click the play button at the bottom of this entry! If you gave up on making New Year’s resolutions years ago, it’s likely because they were simply vague wishes that were abandoned within a few days after the year began because it was too hard to stick with them. It was safer to not set any goals than to set them and be disappointed. But perhaps the problem wasn’t in the goals themselves, but the mindset of the goals. You really didn’t have any “skin in the game” so to speak, so it was easy