Let’s talk about dropping the L-Bomb; with the help of Catherine Cox (@healthycathycooks), Patrick and Michaela dive into saying “I love you” for the first time in a relationship. They explore the ILY timeline, who says it first, love languages, and the vulnerable thoughts in the aftermath of dropping the L-word.

Later, the three answer a few emailer questions. With “Covid dating life,” one listener finds his relationship moving at a faster than normal pace— So, “How do you avoid going from 0 to 100 with dating right now?” Another listener asks how to “sit back and enjoy the ride” in her long term relationship, seeing that many people have feelings of monotony and disconnection down the road. The last emailer asks about what to do when she hasn’t heard from the guy she’s been dating in a few days — how many days is too many days not to text?

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