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School Lunches Cost WHAT? and Other Fun Kids & Money Moments


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Kids & Money are forever intertwined

From infancy to school days, through graduation and into young adult independence, they learn the most about money from us, the parents.

We may never say a word, but they are learning. Here we discuss some age-appropriate ways to make talking (and learning) about money part of everyday life, and preparing them for bigger money decisions in their future.

April is Financial Literacy Month, and it's a great time to remember to "talk money" with our kids and each other.

Paula (19:47) “We learn from our parents, ‘you just don’t spend what you don’t have,’ and there was no other reason behind that…It makes sense, but why?”Janene (20:49) “Having those discussions earlier about, like you said, small things makes talking about the harder things later, the bigger things, easier.”Topics & Timing:

(2:39) Get to know today’s guest: Paula Simmons, UECU National Account Representative

(7:43) Kids & Money: Talking to kids about money, is it worth it?

Janene (11:41) “The earlier that you learn from things, the better.”Paula (11:46) “Better that little register fail than the rent check!”

(12:30) CueItUp is a great tool to make talking about money with your kids easier. It is great for parents and kids of all ages, and as Paula noted, especially for teens because: “Mom and dad don’t know anything.” <> CueItUp is a free online resource of short(7-10 minutes) e-courses about money topics of all kinds: www.uecu.org/cueitup.

(22:50) Starting conversations with young children (through age 6). Where do you start?

  • Teaching delayed gratification with things other than money
  • The value and rewards of saving; piggy bank vs. bank account for long-term savings goals
  • Teaching budget basics by giving their own money to spend on shopping trips
  • Understanding the value of coins and paper money, and that plastic cards aren’t magic money
  • Understanding that there are limits: wants vs. needs
  • Ultimately, allow them to make money decisions in small age-appropriate ways
  • Don’t shield the challenges (and the plans to overcome them!) from them, be honest in age-appropriate ways

Janene (31:45) “If you’re sitting here, and your daughter or your son is 14 years old and you’ve never really talked about money…it’s not too late, even if they are 25 or 27!”

(32:25) Helping elementary and middle school kids learn a little more about money and being responsible with what they have

  • Allowance and small jobs mean it’s time to budget and set your priorities
  • Setting priorities for spending what they have
  • Saving routinely for those bigger goals – consider teaching percentages so that it’s not a fight every time they get money to put some of it away for bigger goals
  • Give incentives to save
  • Teaching budgeting for every day expenses and what to do with extra money when it comes your way: Allowance (salary) and doing extra chores (side job/bonus money)

Episode Title Inspiration (35:56) “School lunches cost WHAT?”: Commiserate with Janene and Paula. All parents feel like this as some point, right? Still…it’s a great moment to teach kids about money.

  • First checking account before they can drive? Yes! Learn the basics with small money items and purchases. Using debit cards for (parent-approved!) online purchases help them understand and value spending their own money online.

(40:30) Money lessons for high school students

  • First “real” jobs
  • Driver’s license, the car, repairs and insurance – what is their responsibility?
  • Deciding what comes after high school (Paying for it is the topic of episode 2!)

Paula (44:13) on why she talks to her daughter about money: “I want you to have that better life than what I had…and if you know these basic concepts now…let’s keep it going.”


  • Understanding the real life and money impacts of secondary education choices – it’s okay to “spreadsheet” (even for creative-bent people like Janene)!
  • Be honest with what you plan to contribute to the expenses and what they will be responsible for.
  • Ask them lifestyle questions and how it will align with the career they are interested in pursuing.
  • Look at real salary examples together
  • Consider all of the options that create a financially stable and rewarding life. (Skilled trades programs/degrees, online education/certifications, college, etc.)
  • Ask your child what their view of the future, and listen to what they say. Keep an open mind.

Janene (50:50) “There’s kind of a renewed respect for the trades, and partly that’s because…it’s hard to get a tradesperson to come to your house, because there’s not enough of them out there!”


(57:08) teaching older teens about credit is really important. It affects the cost of real life bills, and can limit choices more than we think:

  • Getting a loan is just the start
  • Renting an apartment
  • Setting up utilities
  • Getting a job
  • Building a good credit score is important. Pay bills on time.

TIP TALK:(59:10) Janene “Use your smart phone calendar and reminders and set up recurring minimum payments so all bills get paid on time.”


(1:03:14) Paula “It’s never too early and it’s never too late. Just have those conversations regardless, and if you need help, call us!”RESOURCES:

UECU's free CueItUp E-courses discussed today:

  • Family Conversations About Money https://uecu.everfi-next.net/student/dashboard/financial-education/building-financial-capability/1695?locale=en#family-conversations
  • Healthy Financial Habits: https://uecu.everfi-next.net/student/dashboard/financial-education/building-financial-capability/2177?locale=en#healthy-financial-habits
  • Budgeting for Families https://uecu.everfi-next.net/student/dashboard/financial-education/building-financial-capability/2531?locale=en#budgeting-for-families/
  • Creating a Budget https://uecu.everfi-next.net/student/dashboard/financial-education/building-financial-capability/1688?locale=en#creating-a-budget
  • Credit Scores and Reports https://uecu.everfi-next.net/student/dashboard/financial-education/building-financial-capability/1569?locale=en#credit-score
  • And many others to learn alongside your child with short e-courses on the basics: Savings Accounts, Checking Accounts, Credit Cards, and more. www.uecu.org/cueitup

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