Comedian, performer and staff writer on SNL, Sam Jay tells the girls how she came up (and out) in the Atlanta Black gay scene, “doubled her energy” while dealing with Lupus to focus on comedy after turning 30- years-old and how being gay wasn’t even on her radar growing up as she didn’t see herself in 90s lesbian culture, which felt mainly white. Check out her just released Netflix comedy special, “3 in the Morning.”