Childhood trama should be reflected on until you overcome those painful memories and can use them the better yourself. Many times we will find the heavy mistakes we've made comes from unresolved pain. We push it down so deep that we don't notice it's still very much apart of us. That's how I became a convicted felon. The wounds from my childhood never healed. My grandmother, her death was my will to keep going. I gave it away with one terrible choice. Thank God it turned into a lesson I will never forget, a fight to overcome through the eyes of others, and a celebration in all my accomplishments.