Psychosexual therapist and scientific researcher, Anna Kelberg, works with sex and sexuality related issues. Ask our sexpert all your juicy questions and elevate your sex life and relationships. Send them through @thepulseau

• What exactly are sexual fantasies? Is it normal to have them?
• What are some common themes of the fantasies people experience?
• How would you recommend sharing a fantasy with a partner?
• What if my fantasy is unusual and kinky? How do I share something like this with my partner? What if they’re not up for it?
• I get really turned on reading erotic fiction. Is it weird that I enjoy this? Porn doesn’t really do anything for me, but often when I’m reading a raunchy scene in a book I feel like getting sexy. Sometimes I get do it for myself or when my boyfriend’s around and I’ve been reading these kind of books I want to have sex with him. I don’t tell him why I’m so turned on. Is it wrong to use these fantasies to enjoy sex with him more?

Anna Kelberg is a scientific researcher and a clinical psychologist, focusing on sexual wellbeing of couples and individuals. To find out more visit her website www.annakelberg.com

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