People desire it. Others despise it. Many abuse it. Few develop it. Religion kills it. Ignorance ignores it. Work strains it. Fame distorts it. Women place high value on it. Men are slow to build it. Money competes with it. Marriages need it. What is “it”? A relationship with God. A person must go through a process of “emptying out” and healing from a lifestyle that kept them from embracing the truth of His love.