If you can't love and show up for yourself you cant love and show up for anyone else. Self love means being in love with every part of yourself. Taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well being to please others. To love yourself, is to know your worth and to not settle for anything less than you deserve. You deserve nothing but the greatest love story and it starts with your relationship with yourself and God. Put you and God first and you will receive the most magickal divine pure unconditional love.