Episode 4 is here for your perusal and as usual we dish out some advice, are you an a-hole for expecting guests to tidy up after themselves (or their dog and what's the best way to stalk your teenager's crushes.  Also get the latest on the the Dude's jury service, find out why we think Dirty Dancing is problematic (the movie, not the dance style),  and some terrible customer services involving a forgotten car.  And finally, although the Dapper Chap tried to call a truce on embarrassing him the Dude is having none of it.

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