On this episode, special guest Barbara Russell, a Licensed Professional Counselor, dives extremely deep into revealing why secrets are no fun. Barbara, a preacher's kid from Oklahoma ,she chuckles PK girl !As she talks about her issues with her father, doubting his love for her and feeling undeserving of it. She found the real reason behind his behavior: he had made a solemn promise to her mother. You see, Barbara's mother had a big secret—she and her nine siblings were sexually molested. Barbara realized and understood the boundaries her dad put forth. This inspired Barbara to write her book, "Yes! I Said No!" (link below). Childhood trauma is so deep; it causes dis-ease in the body that leads to disease. Barbara shares how seeking a counselor can help lift the burden inside your heart. It's life-changing. Speak it out, and it loses its power to control you. Barbara also dives into why men's memory capacity is different.

*Please seek counseling if needed

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You can purchase Barbra book Yes! I said NO !Your new hardcover is fully available on the following platforms: 

Amazon: 

https://amzn.to/45pTgAw 

Barnes and Noble: 

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/yes-i-said-no-barbra-e-russell/1134184980?ean=9780998077994 

Walmart: 

https://www.walmart.com/ip/Yes-I-Said-No-How-to-Set-Healthy-Boundaries-and-Increase-Your-Self-Esteem-Edition-3-Hardcover-9780998077994/2777803465?from=/search 

Books-a-million: 

https://www.booksamillion.com/p/Yes-Said-No/Barbra-E-Russell/9780998077994?id=8896562918651  

Link to Audio book:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0839CBWGG/

Link to Workbook:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0998077933

Link to Kindle e-book

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01M5ARMCO

Link to paperback

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0998077909

Yes! I Said No!: How to Set Healthy Boundaries and Increase Your Self-Esteem