Monthly cyber security podcast, with our experts Stephen Ridgway and Rich Benfield. If you are in a sticky situation, or need any advice to do with cyber security answered anonymously and on the podcast, email us at [email protected]. This week's question is:I'm head of security operations at a retailer I'm absolutely myself all the time I don't have incontinence issues I'm not literally crapping my pants but basically I can't take the stress we'rem bombarded from all directions every day I have no clue if our defences work I'm crossing my fingers every day the soccer mediocre on a good day mainly because uh we're a retailer I'm constantly being tasked with driving down costs to the point where we're understaffed and I'm losing sleep thinking what the heck do I do if and when something happens I can't sleep I've aged 50 years in five years I guess I'm not cut out for this job but at the same time I worked hard to get to this point and my wife likes to spend money like you'd not believe she'd probably leave me if I ditched my job or took a demotion, there isn't really a question here, other than who can cope with this, please don't tell me it's just me.Don't forget to like and subscribe to our channel!#infosec #cybersecurity