Just because some one holds a sacred title in your life doesn't not mean you have to let them hold a sacred spot in your heart. If they failed to live up to what they needed to be in your life at different stages then they get demoted to a class with the ordinary, or maybe even stranger category. See, people decide their status and role in your life by their investment level. These ppl try to take a status in your life by the sacred title given to them the minute you were born, when they might have been a whole entire force, natural emotional disaster in your life coming up. Something you had to take DECADES to get over and unlearn ALL they taught you, then they try to bounce in your life during very warm happy holiday time, no, not at all. Don't step into MY life as if you made me, created this warm, kind compassionate soul, this person, because you didn't. You created nothing of this individual I am today. I will not give you any credit for any good I am, no, no thank you. You are a force I've had to do an exorcism quarter, your impact on me is one I've had to purge frequently and I am weighted down in every kind of way because of you. So there's that, can uou relate, plz tell me how. I might be able to help.