Are you a snooper who looks through their emails or phone? The thing about snooping is, when you look for something, most of the time you will find it.  If what you find turns out to be hurtful, are you ready to deal with it? How will you deal with it? Will you calmly address it or go ballistic? That’s the thing about curiosity, it kills cats. Hopefully that cat doesn’t end up being your heart.