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Self-Absorbed?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5Ijbf53rh4
Are you serving others focused, or serving yourself instead?
Amazon-Proof Your Business https://brianjpombo.com/amazonbook/
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Self-absorbed?
Hi I'm Brian Pombo, welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live.
We get together on a nightly basis and we discuss, oh, anything from principles to strategies to tactics to help you win your business, whether you're the business owner, or the executive, it's for people who are in charge that are moving forward, small, medium, large sized businesses doesn't matter.
Let's talk about being self absorbed, I'll give you that. I'll tell you where this came from. This came from a quote that I heard someone use and they were discussing - and I think that's something I've heard a number of times previous - but for some reason, it just hit in a different way.
Today the guy was talking about the old TV show, there was an old TV show called The Millionaire, and in this show a millionaire would give a million dollars to a random stranger. And then you'd see what that person would end up doing it throughout the show. And so the question is, did you ever see yourself as the person who got the million dollars?
Would you ever picture yourself as a person that got the million dollars in that scenario or would you see yourself as the person giving the million dollars?
In most cases, most of us would think what if I had a million dollars? What would I do?
What if I was the one that ended up with a larger sum of money that I currently have and where would I end up going with that?
What would I end up doing with it when what we really should be thinking about is?
Who do I want to help when I have the funding to do so when I have the backing?
What changes am I going to make in the world?
Who would I pass along money to if I had more than I needed, or more than I wanted or more than I could possibly use type of thing are in your own mind at how however you would word that and then that puts a different spin on it.
And I found that with I have a lot of clients in different industries. But one thing's very common is when there's a huge amount of stress and stress and frustration.
It's really easy to see what the issue is because most of the time it's person being too self absorbed.
I really attempt to help my clients to set very clear goals and to stick to them. To watch them all step every step of the way.
The other end of that, though, is when a person is so caught up with where they are going, that they are not, they have zero focus on anybody else. And so they don't care about their employees, they don't care about their business partners, they don't care about their vendors and the other people they do business with.
And that will lead to absolute misery and frustration. Because there's only so much you can do for yourself. There's only so much that you can consume on your own. If you have any decency, you'll never be satisfied in that situation.
Life is about helping other people and oftentimes, if you find yourself in a in a state of frustration and a feeling like you can't get ahead, you can never have enough than most of the time, it's because you're self absorbed. And it's not a bad thing.
It doesn't mean you're, you know, doomed to the pits of Hell, I don't think that's true, I think the case is,
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Are you serving others focused, or serving yourself instead?
Amazon-Proof Your Business https://brianjpombo.com/amazonbook/
Transcription
Self-absorbed?
Hi I'm Brian Pombo, welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live.
We get together on a nightly basis and we discuss, oh, anything from principles to strategies to tactics to help you win your business, whether you're the business owner, or the executive, it's for people who are in charge that are moving forward, small, medium, large sized businesses doesn't matter.
Let's talk about being self absorbed, I'll give you that. I'll tell you where this came from. This came from a quote that I heard someone use and they were discussing - and I think that's something I've heard a number of times previous - but for some reason, it just hit in a different way.
Today the guy was talking about the old TV show, there was an old TV show called The Millionaire, and in this show a millionaire would give a million dollars to a random stranger. And then you'd see what that person would end up doing it throughout the show. And so the question is, did you ever see yourself as the person who got the million dollars?
Would you ever picture yourself as a person that got the million dollars in that scenario or would you see yourself as the person giving the million dollars?
In most cases, most of us would think what if I had a million dollars? What would I do?
What if I was the one that ended up with a larger sum of money that I currently have and where would I end up going with that?
What would I end up doing with it when what we really should be thinking about is?
Who do I want to help when I have the funding to do so when I have the backing?
What changes am I going to make in the world?
Who would I pass along money to if I had more than I needed, or more than I wanted or more than I could possibly use type of thing are in your own mind at how however you would word that and then that puts a different spin on it.
And I found that with I have a lot of clients in different industries. But one thing's very common is when there's a huge amount of stress and stress and frustration.
It's really easy to see what the issue is because most of the time it's person being too self absorbed.
I really attempt to help my clients to set very clear goals and to stick to them. To watch them all step every step of the way.
The other end of that, though, is when a person is so caught up with where they are going, that they are not, they have zero focus on anybody else. And so they don't care about their employees, they don't care about their business partners, they don't care about their vendors and the other people they do business with.
And that will lead to absolute misery and frustration. Because there's only so much you can do for yourself. There's only so much that you can consume on your own. If you have any decency, you'll never be satisfied in that situation.
Life is about helping other people and oftentimes, if you find yourself in a in a state of frustration and a feeling like you can't get ahead, you can never have enough than most of the time, it's because you're self absorbed. And it's not a bad thing.
It doesn't mean you're, you know, doomed to the pits of Hell, I don't think that's true, I think the case is,