Accountability is now a love language 👊🏻 It's really normal for a hurt person to guard their hearts frantically but there will always be a limit to how much we see the world cynically. Not everyone is a threat. Not everyone can carry our burdens with us. Most of all, not everyone can understand your pain better than you.

Which is why, despite the hurt always choose the kindest option and if you can't, hold your accountable for the hurt you may cause. ❤️‍🩹 That is maturity. That is healing.

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